A growing network of support, friendship and information is helping clergy spouses and partners across the Diocese of London feel more connected and better equipped for the unique challenges of clergy life.
For the past three years, Sara Hunter has led the Diocese of London’s Clergy Household Support initiative, creating opportunities for clergy spouses and partners to build relationships, access practical advice and find support from others who understand the realities of ministry life.
Married to the Revd Graham Hunter, Vicar of St John’s Hoxton, Sara has nearly two decades of experience as part of a clergy household in the Stepney Area. Drawing on her own experiences, she recognised that many spouses and partners can often feel disconnected from diocesan life and unaware of the help available to them.
“I really felt that what I wanted to do was make sure that spouses and partners have the information they need,” Sara explains. “Things like housing, finances, grants, wellbeing support and where to go for help aren’t always obvious. I wanted people to feel empowered rather than having to rely on an already busy clergy spouse or partner passing on relevant information.”
A key part of the work is a regular newsletter, sent to a growing network of more than 120 clergy spouses and partners across the diocese. The newsletter shares practical information on topics ranging from clergy housing and finances to wellbeing and support services.
Alongside the newsletter, Sara organises social gatherings and meet-ups throughout the year, providing opportunities for people to make connections and friendships with others in similar circumstances.
“Having that space for community and friendship is really important,” says Sara. “Not everybody wants to come along, and that’s absolutely fine, but it’s valuable to have something available for those who do.”
Recent events have included informal social gatherings as well as occasional retreat days during Advent and Lent. Sara says that while some people appreciate opportunities for reflection, many value simply having time together with others who understand the joys and pressures of life alongside ministry.
The initiative also includes dedicated WhatsApp groups for each Episcopal Area, helping clergy spouses and partners stay connected locally and share information more easily.
Particular attention is given to those who are new to the diocese. Each year Sara contacts newly ordained clergy and those moving into London churches to ensure spouses and partners know about the support available. She also helps to facilitate online welcome sessions, introducing newcomers to diocesan structures, key contacts and sources of support.
Although the gatherings are often relatively small, Sara believes they make a significant difference.
“The numbers may not be huge, but those who come have really valued it,” she says. “It’s about helping people feel less isolated and making sure they know they’re not on their own.”
As the Diocese of London welcomes newly ordained clergy and clergy families this summer, Sara is keen to ensure more spouses and partners know that support is available.
Anyone who is married to, partnered with or preparing to support someone in ordained ministry within the Diocese of London is warmly invited to connect with the network.
If you are a clergy spouse or partner and would like more information about Clergy Household Support please feel free to contact Sara Hunter, have a look at our page on the Diocese of London website or register to receive regular (usually monthly) email updates.
“It’s really about community,” says Sara. “Making sure people feel connected, supported and equipped for the journey they’re on.”